..am i doing something wrong?

okay so im 21
single
childless

...is there a problem??!
ALL of my cousins have kids. while they're yelling at their babies.. im the one playin with them. they dont take me serious. its like im still a child in their eyes since i am kidless. my 27 y/o cousin tells me i'll have one by next year. wdf? no offense to those with kids but is waiting to have kids some taboo? in order for us to fit in must a whining child be attached to our hips?

11 comments:

Amber-Alert said...

do not and i repeat do not have children anytime soon. anyone who glamorizes having children young and out of wedlock is an idiot plain and simple.

..*..tlc..*.. said...

I have the same problem with my family. I think I prefer the childless route any day!

Dope Fiend said...

co-sign. no babies for me thanx!

i dont got no ring on my finger! Or the money!

Phi. said...

yeah riiiiight...

kids are like the end-all of life as we know it! this may sound a little greedy... but i love my life, i ain't trying to give it up at 21.

☆αmbєr said...

i dont know if yall are confused by my words or what.. i dont want kids... thats the problem. im saying my family looks at me as if im a joke because I DONT HAVE ANY and DONT EXPECT TO HAVE ANY.

Ashley Ashley said...

They only want u to have kids because they want you to be equal to them. in a sense ppl w/o kids have a sense of power bc they can do what they want when they want to. so if u have kids u'll be like them. needing to find a babysitter and leaving early or going straight home and boring stuff like that. dont have kids!!! read some lither reconsider!!!!!!!!

riva. said...

AMEN!
all of my best friends are pregnant, or have just given birth and i've slowly started to feel as if i am the outcast. however, i soon realized that i don't want a belly underneath my graduation gown. having no kids right now..is fine with me. :-)

☆αmbєr said...

well im glad were not a statistic

Hippoleetoe said...

most important part of your text
"...yelling at their babies.. im the one playin with them.."
KEY ! lol you get the benefits of kids without the hardship
lol

your time will come.. you're sooooo young !!

shawnypooh said...

I'm 24 and childless, will be 25 this fall. Ummmm I feel great and free to shop and buy the most expensive extravagant things without feeling 'guilty' or silly you know?

Kids.....eh' who needs em. ;)

Anonymous said...

Amen! I thought I was the only one feeling this way. I am 24 years old and I will turn 25 in December. I have always wanted to wait until I get married to have kids. Damn I mean I have dreams and aspirations and although I adore kids and they are a blessing from God they just don't fit in the equation right now. I want to have kids one day just not TODAY!By the way love the blog!!

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