I started seeing this guy a while back. We were never really officially together but we definitely acted like a couple. I thought he was very attractive. I loved his height and his build. He wasn't skinny and he wasn't fat. He was like a firm teddy bear. He used to work out all the time. I mean hours for days.
I figured that he could even help me tighten up a few of my trouble areas. However, he started to gain so much weight after a while. I mean his weight increased in like 3 months by so much. He changed completely. His face got so chubby I found myself kind of disgusted by him. He was starting to feel soft and jiggly like a female.
We don't talk much anymore because he is overseas. I did speak to him one time and he told me that he was gaining more weight. I feel bad that I seem so shallow but physical attraction is important to me. If he gets back and looks something like a sumo wrestler should I tell him the truth about how I'm not attracted to him? Or should I still be his "friend" and try to to help him lose the weight? Have you ever been in a situation where your significant other may have changed their look or style and you weren't feeling it? How did you handle that?