Who should go first?

We’ve all heard the phrase “Ladies First” right?  Now when referring to oral sex, does that mean ladies should receive or give first? I’ve always wondered who should perform oral first. I personally prefer to receive first.  Let me explain my reasoning. I believe in a perfect sex-session, he will go down on me, and make me cum a least two times. If you’re AMAZING at it, it might be 3 times. After I get mine, I will have no problem pleasing you. I don’t mean to toot my own horn but *toot toot* I will give you yours. (maybe 2 if it’s your birthday or Kwanza) After we both have pleased each other, then the poking may now begin.
Now I asked a couple people how they felt about this “Ladies First” phrase when it comes to sex. It seemed like more women agreed with me and the men believed it means women should perform first.  So I asked my friend Dezmond to enlighten me on his reasoning. He said, “When a woman sucks me first, it shows that she isn't selfish. That she knows that I need her to get that first one out of me, and after that one, she knows I will give her long pipe all night.” Which I can understand but I also know that majority of women can only reach the most powerful orgasm from direct contact to her clitoris. I told him we too old for the “finger game,” so that would leave you with giving me your powerful head. 
Some people feel if they go first then the other person can back out at any time. But if you guys are in a committed f-cking relationship, then that shouldn't be an issue. It should be understood that if I’m sucking you your eating me; no if, ands or buts about it. I can see both sides, but I just know that if I’m having sex with you, I want to receive something in return: The BIG O!
 So my question is, What does “Ladies First” mean to you, Should ladies receive or give first?


7 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think it depends on the situation. I personally dont like going down if ur not going to do so in return

MissThirty2 said...

I agree. It depends on the type of relationship that we have. If you're my boyfriend, I have no problem pleasing you whenever, but if its just a straight f-cking relationship; you do me, I'll do you. No freebies.

Thanks for commenting! :)

Anonymous said...

If definitely agree that in a committed relationship, you already know to take care of your woman first. If we're just kicking it, then the same time is cool. Besides, getting the first one out guarantees better ones down the road.

MissThirty2 said...

Exactly!!

Thanks for commenting! :)

BMack said...

Honestly a real nigga wouldn't care. I like giving head just as much I like getting it. Now if your not giving me head at all then "Houston we have a problem"

MissThirty2 said...

That's good to know. I appreciate your real n!gga opinion!

Thanks for commenting! :)

Amber No Rose said...

we kinda talked about this.. honestly i say women should go first but in the world i live in i'm not giving a guy head unless I get mine first.

"it aint no fun unless we all get some."