In this situation, these adults acted like children. Obviously someone was hurt and lashed out (I'm going to point at Joe) by trying to make the other feel their pain from the breakup. I have never experienced a messy break-up or ever threatened outing information that my significant other told me in confidentiality.
It seems as if now, more than ever before the airing out of your ex's dirty laundry on social networking sites is the ULTIMATE means of healing, but at the cost of your ex's embarrassment. So, back to Joe and Esther, Joe has previously done this with his ex girlfriend Tahiry. Knowing his past, should Esther have even got into a serious relationship with Joe?
posted by Amber Yum