Okay so its the guy who likes me and i USED to work with him. Im NOT one for co-workers dating. i think its a mess waiting to happen. i've done it before and it was nothing but drama. ..anywho i always thought this guy was cute but never said anything to him for that manner.. plus i dont approach guys first.. i kept to myself when i worked at sprint because it was hater central in that place. We found out our call center was closing and he started speaking towards the end of it all. So we exchanged contact and have been talking via text & calls every since then. So i did some investigating and dude has a girlfriend. He's 23 and has been messing with chick since he was 18. Yeah thats a looooooong ass time. he NEVER said anything about oh girl. Yeah i shoulda asked but we were talking about relationships and he was like ..yeah i gotta wife u up.. some bull. so it led me to believe dude was single. WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! Okay so now that i know i've been real reserved. I havent really said anything to him about the situation because im waiting on him to confess. Honestly i really dont care (deep down) i never care about people feelings. but im trying too. apart of me knows i would be shitty if my boyfriend was doing all this. Especially since he's all like lets go out to dinner, movies or something.. for what? Dude text and calls me all throughout the day. so im like.. what kind of girlfriend do u have??? so i really dont know what to do. im not trying to go with the dude.. not at all. im good in that area. but talking to ppl is fun. i normally dont care about girlfriends but since im getting older (almost 22) i think its time to mature and realize karma will soon bite me in the ass. So what should i do?
keep talking/ flirting and just have fun
tell him i know
leave him alone??
posted by Amber Steez