Okay so like I said before my older sister Tiffany’s boyfriend proposed to her. My sister is like the only family member I’m close to. We’re 6 years apart (age wise) but we are super close. Its funny because growing up I hated her guts!! (We have the same mom, diff pops.) But we’ve grown and have a really great relationship.
Now my senior year in high school she got pregnant out of wedlock and that’s the only thing that was a setback. She graduated from college on the deans list from college. She’s super smart and driven. But basically some things with her and the babe dad turned out ugly and he is no longer in my nieces life.
She was hooked up with her new boyfriend T.C. by her two sisters. They immediately clicked and now are about to get married. They haven’t been dating long but they love each other and that’s all that matters. Now I’m cool with the marriage thing because I want her to be married. But she told me they are trying to get married on March 7th.
Ummm hello that’s like tomorrow. I was like well why are you getting married so soon, you should wait and save some money so the wedding wont be rushed. She snapped. I was like I wasn’t saying it for you to get upset. Im sorry but its just my personal opinion. So I called my mom is the most negative person that I know. She of course was hating (I think its jealousy) but she started talking like she didn’t like T.C. *note this woman stays in his face, now all of a sudden she don’t like him* I rushed her off the phone because she was pissing me off. 45 mins later my moms is calling back. I answer, but its my auntie. * I don’t fuck w/ her side of the family at all because they will all use u until you cant be used anymore.* heres the convo
(annoying talking in the background)
Auntie: Oh hi Amber. Happy New years.
(me thinking did she get the memo late? New Years was 2 days ago.)
Me: Happy New Years. Whats up?
Auntie: dang just saying happy new years. What did you do?
(me thinking yeah right)
Me: okay and I said it back. But I got drunk.
Auntie: You were drunk? Wow. Who you get drunk with?
Me: my friends.
Auntie: (laughing: mocking me “my friends” haha you sound like a white girl. Well I was just calling to get your opinion about the wedding.
Me: (irritated) What u mean my opinion? Its not my wedding, and if my sister is happy then there’s no comments needed. Who cares be happy for her.
Auntie: I was just seeing what u thought.
Me: Well I told my mother she should wait a little longer so it wont be rushed but other than that its nothing to say. Im happy for her and she’s going to do what she wants to do.
Auntie: Oh do you like him?
Me: Ugh yeah. Why?
( I guess she thought I said what do you think b/c she started rambling)
Auntie: Well I think its too soon, and we don’t know anything about him. I don’t want her to make a mistake. It does seem pretty soon. I was telling her mom the other night I had a dream she told me she was getting married and your mom just told me she is. So it kind of scared me. I don’t know though.
Me: What are you talking about? Who cares?
Auntie: okay Amber well u sound like you don’t want to talk so I love you and ill talk to you later.
My family is so negative and jealous. I hate them. They are so judgmental yet don’t have any fucking room to judge a soul. That’s why I keep to myself. I hate telling my mom anything b/c she immediately tells someone. Stupid ass. I hate family sometimes. I hate that I have no choice but to deal with them.